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Letter
8, Cruise 2003::
I
came on cruise knowing that I was in for a very unique
experience. I put my fears aside and dove in head first.
The lessons I learned are priceless and it is my honest
opinion that this has been one of the major turning
points of my life. It is easy to pretend that the two
months at sea are times to be crazy and throw out inhibitions.
However, we must be smart and understand that it is
also an opportunity to form new ties and break old habits.
I don't want to deceive anyone; there are times when
I would like to be at home with friends and family.
There are times when I would rather be alone. There
are times when the Training Ship Golden Bear simply
loses its appeal. I am proud and glad to say that I
have managed my problems quite well and that the sunspots
of this experience have been some of the most purely
joyous times that I can remember.
Cal Poly at Sea is not the ideal way to travel. It is,
however, the best way to study and simultaneously visit
a small fraction of the beauty in the world. It is difficult
to experience immersion in a culture during such a limited
time. The upside is that we are exposed to several distinct
cultures to which we may return at a later time. People
everywhere have unique knowledge and perspectives to
offer which we should attempt to understand.
I feel very privileged to see some of the things I've
seen and heard during this trip. This includes the dirty,
gross, and otherwise unpleasant things. Everything is
part of living my friends. I would like to encourage
everyone to embark on this journey if at all possible.
Almost surely there will be a time when you will reflect
and realize that the freedom and peace offered to you
is wonderfully refreshing. Hopefully in the end we can
all say that, if only for once, cruise is an experience
worth having.
Classes at sea are easier for several reasons. First
of all, there are fewer distractions when studying is
to be done. Although people are difficult to get away
from, it is easy to find time for class work because
sometimes there simply won't be anything else to do.
Secondly, your classmates are just next door, which
greatly facilitates study groups. third, the professors
are readily available and quite willing to speak with
students upon request. Not only this; instructors like
to have fun as well so if students work less, so do
they.
The food service is satisfactory. One should not expect
gourmet food, knowing that being out at sea limits all
supplies. Even so, I must admit that I am happy with
the meal selections, and the barbecues are definitely
something to look forward to. Deserts and pastries on
board are exquisite. Do not avoid them, but do consume
in moderation if you are health or body conscious.
I doubt that any of my shipmates will have many regrets
about the adventures we took on because there is simply
no time to look back. I have learned more than what
is taught in the classroom. I know myself better. I
know the world a bit better. I have no complaints. I
know it is a cliche, but seize the moment. As we often
say on cruise, "You only live once." I would rather
not look back and wonder what could have been.
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